I
have three phenomenal brothers, two older and one younger. Our bond
is powerful and dependable. I have grown to be the person that I am
in part because of their guidance and love. However, what if I had a
sister?Growing up I always wanted to have a sister to share a bedroom
with me, and to explore and experience life together. Somehow, I always
have felt left out in the
world of sisters. My mom had six sisters, my dad had
three, and my brothers have one. When I first began to explore the notion
of creating a room in the cyberfeminist house, one of my first ideas
was to have a room with a sister. How exciting I thought, finally a
room for me, with a sister. I now could belong. No longer would I be
on the outside. Now I could go from being on the outside
to coming IN. I had many ideas of what our room would be like. I thought
about what colors I might have on my bedspread and what colors my sister
might choose. Would the colors be the same? What would it be like to
have a sister? This was like an adventure; a journey along a pathway
that I thought would never exist. I began to have an experience of overflowing
images. It was like a movie, moving fast right before my eyes. Smiles,
laughter, the experience of having a sister. I have taken these visions
of having a sister, and I have incorporated my sisters into
my room as a pathway link to a movie of sisters. The pathway
link is very symbolic, as is the movie and photographs. Within this
inclusive setting of having a sister, I feel as though I now belong.
There is empowerment through inclusion.